Wednesday, 19 November 2025

listen to what YOU say!!!

November 19, 2025 0


There will be a time when you will be standing alone

There will be a time when you have to make a decision

There will be a time when only you have to explain what has happened

There will be a time when you have to find or get your means of happiness and satisfaction

There will be a time when everyone will be waiting for you to make a move

PREPARE FOR IT,... GET READY FOR IT....

As a kid, a natural behaviour is to know what's happening around you, ask questions, and put yourself into it. Parents should find a way to explain things asked by a kid in their own way so that the kid gets their answers. And more importantly, one should describe the kid, which is good and bad, which is safe and dangerous, what is respectful and what is not.

As an Adult there will be time for you to choose your career option in which you are intrested in, YES sometimes it's OK to take the advice of what the elders and your well wishers are thinking about and and what you are capable of doing (IT IS NOT THAT WHAT THEY CHOOSE IS ALWAYS WRONG, IT IS ABOUT WHAT THEY CHOOSE WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY OR NOT) question, yourself.

Parental guidance is the best...It's as if the guidance given by God. What your parents want you to be and what they want from you... At the end of the day, they want to see you happy and leading your life full of happiness.

Again, the question comes up... is it what you wanted to be? It might be any work in his, her, their, etc. profession, job, or place. Are you happy about it from the inside? You're giving it a 100% At last, you are the one who will be accountable for any of your decisions in your life when your career starts, choosing your better half, and making a family putting out all the sentiments you know about yourself, what you are capable of, what you can do, Whats your strengths and weaknesses are, make enough mind to convince your loved ones what you are capable of and start focusing on it no matter what, (keep that in mind, you are the one who is accountable for what you are doing) There are many movies in which a boy or girl who without following their family traditions of bussiness, work, practice, they wanted to do something else, which might make them more popular, which can bring up their family name to the world as Known,... going through many UPS and DOWNS without accepting the failure trying their best achiving their goal and making their family proud standing atop alone (Please remember, this is a decision that is detrimental to their family, but...) they they knew what they are capable of and they achived it ) and they are the one who are accountable... all credit goes to them beacause they had that courage to think outside the box Challenges are inevitable, no matter which path you choose, because they are the ones that can cause you to fail at the last hurdle... and in the same way, these are the ones that can push you forward And there will be a question in your Should I face this challenge and make a decision...?AS my title says LISTEN TO WHAT YOU SAY...
It might be YES or the answer might be NO ... As I said, you will be responsible for your decision.

Monday, 18 May 2020

The Evil Side of Feminism....

May 18, 2020 0
The evil side of feminism .. also said as pseudo-Feminism...

As per my knowledge, the name feminism was stood to support the women to have equal rights as men in society, work, to lead, or to run the nation. and yes... They have proved that not only men even women can stand to face any situation in good or bad... and everyone respects the word Feminism (who follows it with knowing what it means)...

Feminism demands only one thing and that is to be social equality. Everything else you have heard is utterly crass. Feminism is not misandry. They do not hate men

And the word pseudo-feminist comes from those who make a demand in the society that they deserve more than men. degrading men and hurting their feelings...making fun of women for making her choice to live a life which will be against fake feminist.

The word feminism nowadays is used in the wrong ways...in a tv show, a girl said that she has slapped many boys(ok there might be some reason) ...and host of the show took it as the bravery of a girl and in the same show a boy said that a girl was cheating on him so he slapped her... so the female host started raising voice against him saying that ''who the f**k are you to slap her"...instead of giving the same reaction which the girl got...why is that if a girl hits is ok...and if a boy does then it's wrong...?? I agree to hit and hurting someone is a bad thing and this thing should not be discriminated between a girl or a boy...encouraging a girl if she hits a boy.. and degrading a boy if he does the same thing... this is not acceptable.

so being a fake feminist you don't get any extra respect or benefit only because you are a girl. you will get it only because you are a human being... and don't make the word Feminism as a joke. Stop saying or believing that we deserve more than men.. and making a silly argument in the name of feminism.

Stand with both Men and Women for equality,

Feminism, use for what it is really meant for..... 



Sunday, 10 May 2020

Mom... its your day..

May 10, 2020 0



God couldn't be everywhere so he made a mother. Moms do all the work from cooking to cleaning and maintaining the house, maintaining the budget of the house, and no matter what problems they are going through they always laugh with us and encourage us in our good or bad days.

There is no way to say Thanks to mom..and there is nothing to repay for her sacrifice towards her family, this day is just an opportunity to make her know that we remember all the sacrifice that she made while raising us ...

Mothers day is the day when you appreciate her work for the family...
and yes.... you can say Thank you by giving some flowers, Gifts, or a Cake... you can send gift cards if your mother far away from you.....And for one day you handle all the work of home from cooking to cleaning and ask her to take rest for the whole day...

that's how at least we can do for her ... Right ???

So.. What you guys are going to do on Mothers Day....??


...HAPPY MOTHERS DAY....

Monday, 4 May 2020

Friendship....

May 04, 2020 0



"Some People stay in your life for a reason, and some sort of a season and few remain with us for a lifetime."

This line has really stuck with me and helped me understand so much. For most of my life, I wandered around wondering why friends I thought would be friends for life were no longer there for me. The fact is there are many different levels of friendships and relationships and if people were more accepting this fact they would ultimately be much happier.

If people would be more honest with one another and more clearly define what their relationship was it would save a lot of misunderstanding.

All the people that come into your life just are not going to be friends for your whole life and that is OK. Those kinds of friendships are rare. If you have one person in your life that is friends with you for life you are truly blessed.

The question always comes in my mind is.. Why is it that every opposite-sex relationship thinks they have to be boyfriend/girlfriend? why not friends. what's your opinion..??


 kinds of friendship

• THE SOCIAL FRIEND: This is often the type of friend that the majority of people have most of. This kind of friend is not someone whom you hang out with all the time or live with but you know them and associate with them at a bar, store, or some other public place. They are not good at sharing a problem with.

• ADVISER: This is a friend you go to when you need advice or just someone to listen to. You value their wisdom or at least the fact that they are good listeners.

• FUN BOY/GIRL: This type of friend can usually be counted on to travel somewhere with you at a moment's notice. They like hanging out with you whether it is going to the store or a bar or whatever. friends for passing a good time with nothing more than that.

• WORKAHOLIC: This is often the buddies that you simply have at work. a friend who is busy in his household works sometimes it be difficult to interact with him.. and sometime he will be away from the group.. this doesn't mean the end... if there is a good understanding between them.. friendship goes on

• LIFETIME FRIEND: This friendship is extremely rare and some say that in marriage relationships they stick together for all times and as a friend, they will be together enjoying life. This friend is all the above all rolled up in one. And some disagree with this point... So what do you think???

Friday, 1 May 2020

Workforce Of The Nation.... May Day

May 01, 2020 0
May Day or International workers day, Labours Day... May 1st on this day, the workers, labours all around the world celebrates it as an annual holiday. This day is the result of the massive labour union movement this day celebrates social and economic achievements of workers.

In Europe this day has much older significance, this is celebrated as rural festival, because the labours movement and demands of labours were approved with respect, and yes they deserved grand celebration. Some other countries celebrates this day conducting parades,patriotic and labour oriented events.

Many other countries started following this and dedicated this day to the labours.

We require a man power to build this Nation, without workers there would no factories, constructions, and even no developments of countries , many of the companies started taking advantages of workers asking them to work more than 8 hours a day without any rest, some tortured them with more work and payment to these people were not fixed. 

The person who secured the rights of labours in India was "Father of Modern India" Dr.B.R.Ambedkar with out him today the workers have to go through the same darkness.

He made Reduction in Factory working Hours from 14 hours to 8 hours became a light for workers in India. and appealed it in 7th session of Indian Labour conference in New Delhi on Nov27 1942

His Ideas and Decisions framed many laws for Labours in India.

All workers should be grateful to Dr. Ambedkar, especially women employees for making...
  • Mines Maternity Benefit Act
  • Women Labour Welfare Fund
  • Women and Child Labour Protection Act       
  •  Maternity Benefit for Women Labour 
  • Restoration of Ban on women employment on Work in Coal Mines
and also
  • Indian Factory Act,
  • Minimum Wage,
  • DA to workers
  • Provident fund Act,
  • Health Insurance Scheme,
So these acts made them to make their life and family secure with their work. 

As Civil engineer I truly understand how important is the man power in construction Site, you cant do anything with your workers.. so it is must that you should respect your workers, should make a payment on time, and should provide all the things which they deserve legally and as also as a human being.

This day we should honor the workforce of our nation, 

1 MAY 2020








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Wednesday, 29 April 2020

Beautiful Russia..

April 29, 2020 0
Russia,  a country with vast diversities providing a fascinating experience for the tourists. You can explore the imperial Moscow to St. Petersburg and understand truth culture prevailing Russia. 

The ancient cities of Russia namely Moscow, St. Petersburg are widely popular round the world and attracting more and more tourists per annum. The history and therefore the ancient culture of Russia have encouraged many travel enthusiasts to spend their holiday in Russia. You will find Russia as an amusement for the whole family. There are many sights in Russia that demand the tourists to go to . Russia may be a beautiful place that gives everything for everyone .

 The hermitage stands as evidence for the western European art taking about the tsars who ruled Russia for quite one and a half centuries. The magnificent construction has five buildings linked together to make the hermitage collections. The places which i have visited and experienced the art and architecture designs to the each and every corners of the building were, 

WINTER PALACE : You must plan ahead properly to go to these buildings on the river side that contain 1500 rooms and 117 staircases 1886 doors and 1945 windows.The churches depict the exact Russian architecture. The marvelous decorations on the walls stand as a masterpiece of the wooden architecture. 


 PETERHOF PALACE: another extraordinary structure with fountains that attract you the most and the statues cant make to take off your eyes from them The expanse of the Lower Gardens is meant within the formal sort of French formal gardens of the 17th century. Although many trees are overgrown, within the recent years the formal clipping along the various allees has resumed so as to revive the first appearance of the garden.
The fountains here shows an unusual view of creativity.
One of the foremost notable designs is entitled 'The Sun'. A disk radiating water jets from its edge creates a picture of the sun's rays, and therefore the whole structure rotates a few vertical axis in order that the direction during which the "sun" faces is consistently changing.
PETERHOF PALACE
 RIVERS AND CANALS OF ST PETERSBURG BY BOAT :There is a wide range of different offers available at the various quays on or near Nevsky Prospekt, with larger boats offering guided tours (some in English) and on-board refreshments, and smaller boats that you simply can rent by the hour, choose your own route, and convey your own food and drink. All routes through the centre absorb some portion of the Fontanka and Moyka Rivers and therefore the Griboedov and Kryukov Canals. Some also head out onto the River Neva, while around midnight most of the boats within the city offer the prospect to observe the opening of the Neva's bascule bridges from the water. Whatever route you finish up taking, a ship trip may be a fantastic thanks to see St. Petersburg from a special angle, and maybe the simplest possible means of getting an impact of the sheer scope of the city's architectural beauty and romance.




ST.ISAAC'S CATHEDRAL : A huge gallery with monolithic columns, it took 40 years to complete Different types of semiprecious stone from all over Russia form the interior walls and columns, while an abundance of original art and sculpture goes only a touch thanks to filling the vast hall of the cathedral, designed to accommodate 14 000 standing worshipers. As well as visiting the Cathedral interiors, travelers can purchase an additional ticket to climb the 300 steps up to the colonnade. From here, you'll enjoy a number of the simplest views of St. Petersburg.




VIEW OF CATHEDRAL FROM ST ISAAC'S CATHEDRAL


OPENING BRIDGES OF NEVA :The Neva River connects Lake Ladoga to the Baltic Sea, and during the summer navigation season tens of cargo ships per day follow this important route,
This is done after midnight, and through the White Nights especially it's long been a practice for crowds to collect along the embankments to observe the raising of the bridges. The raised arches of Palace Bridge bring one among St. Petersburg's most famous views, but its the maximum amount the atmosphere of lazy revelry and contentment inspired by the eternal twilight that creates this such an unmissable St. Petersburg experience. 
       I have witnessed this seen when i visited this place it was an amazing view and most visited place Kremlin in Moscow stands as evidence of the varied political powers in Russia.




....Another thing which i loved the most including with the trip was having

VODKA...Yes...When it comes to vodka, the Russians have a saying - "warm on the inside, cold on the outside". Winters are cold. Certain parts of the country will stay well below zero for the whole winter. 
In these areas, vodka acts somewhat like antifreeze during a car. It actually seems to keep you warm, but it might be a perception. I only know it seemed to help me. Vodka drinking is completed during a particular way in Russia. The preferred method is to drink it as a shot. In the big cities, you can get it mixed with other things, but this is pretty rare. Everything is a shot and each is usually accompanied by a toast of some sort. Toasts to family, love and ladies are common, even at the foremost informal of dinners. You need to get to the point where a couple of shots bring a smile, 

If you want to spend your holiday in a beautiful place, spending all your time viewing the different scenes of nature you should be visiting Russia. The forts, museums and therefore the park will certainly make your holiday to Russia a memorable one...


Saturday, 18 April 2020

GOL GUMBAZ .... Should be in list of World Heritage Site... what say??

April 18, 2020 0
On the occasion of World Heritage Day, I would like to share about the famous monument. which has to be on the list of the world heritage sites,                     
                                            
GOL GUMBAZ


Gol Gumbaz at Vijaypur (Bijapur) Karnataka, the name Gol Gumbaz means ''circular dome"
A monument that is popular all over the world, and it is also recognized as the Second Largest Dome in the World, with a diameter of 44 meters. A balcony around the interior of the dome is a point where more number of tourist are attracted, the gallery which is known as the "whisper gallery"
where any sound produced in the gallery will be echoing back a dizzying number of times. because of the structure with huge space and concave walls.

Vijayapura city which is well known for its historical monuments of architectural importance built during the rule of the Adil Shahi dynasty, there are many historical sites, other than Gol Gumbaz like  Ibrahim Rouza is the most impressive monument and others like Jama Masjid, Bara Kaman, Gagan mahal. Many architectural sites can be found which are less known. 

The city is not only known for the Adil Shahi dynasty, but also we can find many temples in the city, the one which is most famous is located in the heart of the city  "SIDDHESHWAR TEMPLE" and there are many more.

The city has good connectivity by Roadways and by Railways, though the city is represented as the city of monuments there are no plans to attract the people from other countries to visit this place, Bijapur is nearby 530km(330mi) from the state capital Bengaluru.

well according to me the air transport facility should be provided in the city as soon as possible by the government this will help the visitors with the ease to get to the city, in same line city will be well developed providing visitors a good service like Hotels, Resorts, etc.


A monument like Gol Gumbaz should be known all around the world, recognizing this monument as a world heritage site will increase the count of tourists visiting this place and get exposure all over the world. 

 The old city which is surrounded by the fort with watchtowers can be an attraction to the city if we restore them to get a good look for the city and tourists as well as passersby. 

I believe in upcoming days our government and local government and respected officials will come up with such plans and try to make the site known to the world and provide the world-class facilities for the people who visit will be explored with cities HISTORY AND CULTURE. and take back good memories