Monday, 18 May 2020

The Evil Side of Feminism....

May 18, 2020 0
The evil side of feminism .. also said as pseudo-Feminism...

As per my knowledge, the name feminism was stood to support the women to have equal rights as men in society, work, to lead, or to run the nation. and yes... They have proved that not only men even women can stand to face any situation in good or bad... and everyone respects the word Feminism (who follows it with knowing what it means)...

Feminism demands only one thing and that is to be social equality. Everything else you have heard is utterly crass. Feminism is not misandry. They do not hate men

And the word pseudo-feminist comes from those who make a demand in the society that they deserve more than men. degrading men and hurting their feelings...making fun of women for making her choice to live a life which will be against fake feminist.

The word feminism nowadays is used in the wrong ways...in a tv show, a girl said that she has slapped many boys(ok there might be some reason) ...and host of the show took it as the bravery of a girl and in the same show a boy said that a girl was cheating on him so he slapped her... so the female host started raising voice against him saying that ''who the f**k are you to slap her"...instead of giving the same reaction which the girl got...why is that if a girl hits is ok...and if a boy does then it's wrong...?? I agree to hit and hurting someone is a bad thing and this thing should not be discriminated between a girl or a boy...encouraging a girl if she hits a boy.. and degrading a boy if he does the same thing... this is not acceptable.

so being a fake feminist you don't get any extra respect or benefit only because you are a girl. you will get it only because you are a human being... and don't make the word Feminism as a joke. Stop saying or believing that we deserve more than men.. and making a silly argument in the name of feminism.

Stand with both Men and Women for equality,

Feminism, use for what it is really meant for..... 



Sunday, 10 May 2020

Mom... its your day..

May 10, 2020 0



God couldn't be everywhere so he made a mother. Moms do all the work from cooking to cleaning and maintaining the house, maintaining the budget of the house, and no matter what problems they are going through they always laugh with us and encourage us in our good or bad days.

There is no way to say Thanks to mom..and there is nothing to repay for her sacrifice towards her family, this day is just an opportunity to make her know that we remember all the sacrifice that she made while raising us ...

Mothers day is the day when you appreciate her work for the family...
and yes.... you can say Thank you by giving some flowers, Gifts, or a Cake... you can send gift cards if your mother far away from you.....And for one day you handle all the work of home from cooking to cleaning and ask her to take rest for the whole day...

that's how at least we can do for her ... Right ???

So.. What you guys are going to do on Mothers Day....??


...HAPPY MOTHERS DAY....

Monday, 4 May 2020

Friendship....

May 04, 2020 0



"Some People stay in your life for a reason, and some sort of a season and few remain with us for a lifetime."

This line has really stuck with me and helped me understand so much. For most of my life, I wandered around wondering why friends I thought would be friends for life were no longer there for me. The fact is there are many different levels of friendships and relationships and if people were more accepting this fact they would ultimately be much happier.

If people would be more honest with one another and more clearly define what their relationship was it would save a lot of misunderstanding.

All the people that come into your life just are not going to be friends for your whole life and that is OK. Those kinds of friendships are rare. If you have one person in your life that is friends with you for life you are truly blessed.

The question always comes in my mind is.. Why is it that every opposite-sex relationship thinks they have to be boyfriend/girlfriend? why not friends. what's your opinion..??


 kinds of friendship

• THE SOCIAL FRIEND: This is often the type of friend that the majority of people have most of. This kind of friend is not someone whom you hang out with all the time or live with but you know them and associate with them at a bar, store, or some other public place. They are not good at sharing a problem with.

• ADVISER: This is a friend you go to when you need advice or just someone to listen to. You value their wisdom or at least the fact that they are good listeners.

• FUN BOY/GIRL: This type of friend can usually be counted on to travel somewhere with you at a moment's notice. They like hanging out with you whether it is going to the store or a bar or whatever. friends for passing a good time with nothing more than that.

• WORKAHOLIC: This is often the buddies that you simply have at work. a friend who is busy in his household works sometimes it be difficult to interact with him.. and sometime he will be away from the group.. this doesn't mean the end... if there is a good understanding between them.. friendship goes on

• LIFETIME FRIEND: This friendship is extremely rare and some say that in marriage relationships they stick together for all times and as a friend, they will be together enjoying life. This friend is all the above all rolled up in one. And some disagree with this point... So what do you think???

Friday, 1 May 2020

Workforce Of The Nation.... May Day

May 01, 2020 0
May Day or International workers day, Labours Day... May 1st on this day, the workers, labours all around the world celebrates it as an annual holiday. This day is the result of the massive labour union movement this day celebrates social and economic achievements of workers.

In Europe this day has much older significance, this is celebrated as rural festival, because the labours movement and demands of labours were approved with respect, and yes they deserved grand celebration. Some other countries celebrates this day conducting parades,patriotic and labour oriented events.

Many other countries started following this and dedicated this day to the labours.

We require a man power to build this Nation, without workers there would no factories, constructions, and even no developments of countries , many of the companies started taking advantages of workers asking them to work more than 8 hours a day without any rest, some tortured them with more work and payment to these people were not fixed. 

The person who secured the rights of labours in India was "Father of Modern India" Dr.B.R.Ambedkar with out him today the workers have to go through the same darkness.

He made Reduction in Factory working Hours from 14 hours to 8 hours became a light for workers in India. and appealed it in 7th session of Indian Labour conference in New Delhi on Nov27 1942

His Ideas and Decisions framed many laws for Labours in India.

All workers should be grateful to Dr. Ambedkar, especially women employees for making...
  • Mines Maternity Benefit Act
  • Women Labour Welfare Fund
  • Women and Child Labour Protection Act       
  •  Maternity Benefit for Women Labour 
  • Restoration of Ban on women employment on Work in Coal Mines
and also
  • Indian Factory Act,
  • Minimum Wage,
  • DA to workers
  • Provident fund Act,
  • Health Insurance Scheme,
So these acts made them to make their life and family secure with their work. 

As Civil engineer I truly understand how important is the man power in construction Site, you cant do anything with your workers.. so it is must that you should respect your workers, should make a payment on time, and should provide all the things which they deserve legally and as also as a human being.

This day we should honor the workforce of our nation, 

1 MAY 2020








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